My New Aprt in JB...

Assalammualaikum ....setiap kali nak update terasa so lazy, tak macam dulu, update blog suka sangat, semua nak story, now semua story kat FB and Twitter.

Rasa kesian ngan blog Moralle ni, but nvm, I will still retain it here cause will update it once a while kalau kerajinan, n will try to update like before lah, insyaallah.

Ok, mata pun dah kuyu ni nak slp, bila dah ngantok baru nak update blog, kalau segar bugar tak terfikir pulak, anyway, posting some photos of my new place in JB, simple touch by the previous owner, n I luv it...

Kitchen area

Resting Area

Living & Dining 

Master Bedroom 

Dining Area 

Girls Room 



Last but not least, photo of my kids hving lunch together-gether, hehe...

The Apartment is small compared to our 5 room flat in singapore, but its ok I lagi suka, cause easy for me to clean everyday without any hassle.

Alhamdulillah, we are settled here after almost 7 months at Danga Bay Apartment in Johor Bahru.

Thats it for tonite, time to bobok, insyaallah rajin akan terjah lagi blog sendiri and of course frens blog, but sorry never leave any trace to comment....ASSALAMMUALAIKUM.

16/8/2011 - The day of the Accident

While watching dilemma wanita, suddenly me terfikir jugak pasal my dilemma until today.  It all happened during Ramadhan, dan until today watever had happened masih membelenggu dalam fikiran ni.  I hv taken this from my FB and thought of posting it here at my blog since dah lama terbengkalai blog ni without any story.

16/8/2011 at 615am, tarikh dan masa that I will never forget selagi masih bernyawa di bumi Allah ini.

As usual we left the house around 6am. That morning I told the kids kiter kluar lambat sikit ibu nak sholat subuh. Dah dua hari terlepas, need to rush in, Arin dah start prelim, takut nanti lambat sampai school. Tapi that morning perasaan lain sikit,berdebar-debar jer hati ni, but tawakal jugak, n berdoa selepas Sholat, "ya Allah ya Tuhanku, selamatkan lah perjalanan kami pagi ini". After Sholat, kiter pun kluar.

Biaser lah di JB, kalau pagi hari semua keta berdesut, traffic light pun tak di hindarkan. As for me, biaser jugak drive about 90 kot, ader jugak lah speeding kan bila nampak tak der kereta tu. On the way seperti biase Aqil n Arin at the behind seat dah start to sleep and Yana seating in front slalu layankan ibu dia berbual.

The route we used to go back to Singapore is all the way up to JB Central, we will pass hospital Sultanah Aminah, the zoo and the Istana, all the way to the post office and JB Central. That way the jam tak massive sangat.

It started after I passed Sultanah Aminah Hospital, when I checked the rear view mirror, I saw satu kereta ni bukan main laju, so hati ni berkata, "hai kereta ni, macam nak overtake aku jer" cause the lane after that will be from double to single lane, n by than betul-betul kat kawasan Istana.

Makin lama makin dekat, n dah nak dekat masuk single lane ni, the car masih lagi laju, memang at that time, me pun tengah laju jugak, but when I saw the car terlalu laju, I start to slow down a bit. When approaching the single lane, kereta tu dah betul-betul dekat, he jam brake and hit behind my car dengan kuatnyer than he terus berdesut lagi, as for me that is where I lost control of the car.

What I can remembered, the car hit the road shoulder, than my kids n myself started to shout, Ya allah, subahanallah, I can hear Arin shouting, Ibu tolong ibu, yana shouted, ya allah Ibu , and Aqil he was sleeping when it happened. Everything went blank after that until at the end, the air bag burst out and the car stopped.

Subahanallah, when it stopped, I thought we are gone, or may be the car terbalik, I was shouting, Ya allah, n calling my kids one by one. Alhamdulillah, four of us masih bernyawa and we crawled out of the car. When we were outside, we realized kiter berada di dalam hutan di kawasan Istana Johor. The car actually langgar the barrier yg tinggi, rempuh pagar and even rempuh pokok hingga tumbang.


Kak Yana berusaha mendapat kan pertolongan dengan bergegas keluar dari tempat kejadian dan berdiri di tepi jalanraya untuk mendapat kan bantuan. Puas kami menahan, memekik tak der siaper pun yg berhenti sehingga lah sebuah teksi berhenti kerana pada masa itu kami dah seperti orang giler yg hilang ingatan. The teksi driver pun terkejut melihat kami, kalau accident mana keretanyer, and when we told him that our car is inside hutan tu, dia istiigfar melihatnye.

By than I hv called my anak sedara and told her what had happened. She came to the hospital to help us settle things there until my huby reached the hospital.

To make the story short, once my huby reached the hospital, we told him what happened and he was relieved to c us. Aperlagi setelah melihat tempat kejadian, ramai yg sangka penumpang dan driver tentu dah takde.

Than we settle all the paperwork at JB police traffic and arrange for towing to tow the car back to Singapore. After all the paperwokrs are done in Singapore, like claiming insurance and etc than only we went for check-up. Alhamdulillah nothing serious afte the x-ray. I had a chest pain and bruises on my chest due to the hard impact. Kak yana terseliuh lengannye, Arin lengan dia bengkak sikit as for Aqil, he was the only one yg without any injuries, alhamdulillah.

The car, totally severe damaged, until today we are still waiting for the insurance news to see if we are able to claim or its a total lost.

And due to this, we have to stay at MIL house for a while, sampai semua urusan selesai.


Selepas kejadian yg ngeri ini, sampai lah ke hari ini I m still in a trauma to drive. I cant even touch the steering wheel. Kami bersyukur kerana Allah telah memberi kami peluang kedua untuk berada di samping orang-orang yg kami sayangi.

Bayangkan kejadian yg begitu ngeri itu boleh menyebabkan sesuatu yg fatal tetapi Allah telah melindungi kami dengan kuasanye yg begitu besar sekali.

Sehingga ke hari ini perasaan takut itu terbawa-bawa, n I dont even want to touch the steering wheel, aper lagi kalau huby drive to fast or ada kereta yg terlalu dekat, I will start to shout at him.

Hopefully I will get through this soon, n be myself again, insyaallah.

Alhamdulillah setelah sebulan kereta di workshop, I tried cekalkan hati untuk drive, at first gabrah jugak, macam lost touch with the momentum, padahal auto, but the car keep jerking....after a few days alhamdulillah everything went very smoothly and M back driving.

Some photos taken after the accident...

minor injury that I had..

The after...

SALAM AIDILFITRI........

Its the  8th day of Syawal, masih belum terlambat untuk mama mengucapkan Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri, Maaf zahir dan batin untuk semua rakan Bloggers di mana juga kalian berada.

Banyak betul cerita yg mama nak ceritakan di blog ni, tapi jari-jemari ni malas nak menaip lah aper lagi nak menyusun ayat apabila bercerita.

Insyaallah lah, kalau kemalasan dah hilang, mungkin mama akan bercerita, untuk semua, salam sayang dari mama......assalammualaikum.

RAMADHAN 2011....

Assalammualaikum semua............salam sayang dari Sis Moralle..........untuk semua yg di ingati selalu, selamat menunaikan ibadah puasa dan semuga puasa kite akan mendapat hikmah dan keredhaan dari Allah, insyaallah.

ASSALAMMUALAIKUM........

Updates...........

Salam semua, hishhh so long sudah tak update blog ni, bz se bz bz nyerrrrrrrrrr.

Alhamdulillah semuanye sudah selesai, I hv finally moved to JB.  We shifted on 15/5/2011.  Like I mentioned in my post before this, we decided to stay at Condominium instead of Landed property.  After we have seen few apartments, at last we decided to stay at Danga Bay Apartment.  Reason being, the unit we got is nice, well taken care of by owner, the view also was so superb, we got the pool view from the balcony, n all the 3 rooms are view to a kill, haha maksud I, we can still see Singapore from our bedroom window, and of course the Lido Beach which is now famously known as Danga Bay.  N also the security there are very tight, we feel very safe n secure when we are at home or when we are out the whole day :):)

Everything went very smoothly, the moving was done by me n huby, yessss we moved all our things by ourselves using my father in-law cross road, sebab nye Lancer saya tak muat nak angkut kotak-kotak.

We left all our furnitures at the old house, only moved our clothes, pinggan mangkuk yg important sahaja and my LCD TV which is only 2 yrs old. So sebab tu lah we dont really need a mover to do it.  We have about 40 cartons and we moved it daily from Sin to JB for 5 days non-stop, penat giler but puas hati lah and also save some cost.  Cost yg we all save, dapat jugak we pay tax at JB custom for the LCD TV, the rest was not taxable, only electrical.  Other electrical like our boiler, vacuum and rice cooker pun save jugak tak kenek tax, cause I kenen mata ngan mat kastam, haha............anyway most of them are understanding enuf, we told them lah, ni semua second hand stuff, "nak pindah rumah encik"...........n ader yg jawab, "nak pindah rumah lah pulokkk"..haha, cuma the LCD tak bleh nak escape, besar sangat, so kenek bayar jugak lah tax, alhamdulillah cuma 30% of the cost jer, cost pun they just estimated jer.

After finished all the moving of boxes, me n family spend one saturday to unpack everything and kemas mengemas for the whole day before we really shifted on the actual day.  It has always been my style, to make sure all are in order before we moved in so tak semak mata memandang kotak-kotak.

Thou lots of things to settle, n we managed to really settle down within few days there.  N the kids luv it there, mainly because of the facilities especially the pool and gym.

Our life there are very routine, Mon to Fri we will wake-up at 5am, leave the hse around 6am to Singapore, and of course not forgetting the traffic at CIQ, especially the Singapore side which I really dont understand why lah Singapore ni so teruk sangat, not like in JB CIQ, thou its heavy traffic but still very fast moving.  Well, the most we will get stuck only for 20 mins jer, ok lah kan, cause ramai sangat yg told me, the traffic so heavy sampai tak moving lah, itu lah n ini lah, but alhamdulillah we have gone through it for the past 2 weeks and it is acceptable to us :):)

Same when we are going back to JB in the evening, I finished at 330pm, pick-up the kids one by one, Arin, Aqil and last will be kak Yana, cause she finish at 5pm.  If its still ard 5+ the traffic was ok, by 630 the most we all dah selamat sampai ke rumah.  Huby routine pun sama lah jugak, if he work morning shift he will park his bike at our old hse and go back with us together, if afternoon shift, we will go back on our own.

Since I shifted to JB ni, I jarang lah masak, cause macam penat n macam tak sempat gitu, haha poyo kan, reasons jer ni, but really, betul tak larat, so we will always buy our dinner or sometimes just makan ape yg we have at home, like maggi mee or watever yg easy lah.  I will only cooked on wkends, routine cooking ni actually same routine when I was in Singapore, haha, but when I was in Singapore I penat giler because of my work, stressed, tu yg buat masak pun tak der mood.  As for now work tak stress sangat but because of journey jer, tapi overall we are happy.  Bukan lah jauh pun journey we all, from JB CIQ to my house abt 20 mins jer kalau really smooth no traffic here n there.

Ermm what else, oh we just did our doa selamat last wkends, tak invite anyone pun, just my in-law family n get my father in-law to baca doa, yg best I only cooked sambal tumis telur, my mother in-law came n bawak lauk, ayam lemak cili padi and hati masak rempah, sedap sungguh n berselera, small kenduri for us and my in-laws enjoy their day at my place.

Okay done with the updates of my new place, insyaallah nanti kalau I free boleh lah snap photos here n there n post it here.

Assalammualaikum :):)

Updates Terkini...

Assalammualaikum n hi there to all luvlies :):)

Alhamdulillah m very happy that everything turns out great like we had planned.  Thou wkends had been hectic for us to go in n out frm Sin to JB to hunt for our new place.

And the hunt is over, we got a place.  Everything seems to be smooth for us, last week within a day we managed to find our new place, got a tenant for our existing place and our refinancing with the bank had all been approved, alhamdulillah segalanye di permudahkan untuk kami.

We had seen few places in JB, frm a landed property to condominiums, and we decided with this :):)

The reason being, hubby is concern abt the kids n we want security more than anything else.  And the security here is so tight, that we luv the place so much, the interior jangan lah cakap, we fell in luv, we just have to bring our clothings jer, macam Nad cakap, mama u just hv to buy toothbrush jer, haha, poyo.....oh my Naddy, she was superb, she had been helping me since we decided to move to JB, Nad, mama lup u many many lahhhh :):)

With the full condo facilities, we hope the kids wont get bored when mummy n daddy not at home, and not forgetting the distance to Singapore is so near.

We do hv plans for landed property, insyaallah will go into that once we are comfortable living seberang tambak n we have to c hw the kids can adapt to it also. 

Now we are in the midst of doing some packings, my head macam nak pecah, thou we are not bringing any of our furnitures or watsover except for our clothings, but we still have to do lots of stuffs and settle all the home subscription for internet, phone blah n blah, aduhh many many things lah to do.

Insyaallah if everything goes smoothly, handing over keys will be by 13/5 and we will be officially staying in JB on 12/5.

And our new journey and life will start from that date onwards,I really hope that everything will go very smoothly for us especially the kiddos.

Frankly for me, perasaan tak sabar, haha cause I luv the place sooooo very much, the kitchen, my master room n all lahhh.......walaupun me will be the main person handling and settling the kids to sch into Singapore every morning, but m already prepared for everything, so I kept telling hubby, u dont worry, I can do it, if others can why not me, betul tak??? willpower mesti nak ada kan kan kan.

Ok than, till we meet again with another update on  my new place, perhaps with some photos of my kids yg dah lama I tak post here, salam :):)

My Relaks Corner..

Salam hari Jumaat uols............its wkends again ya, hope uols have a great n wonderful wkends with the luv ones.

Ni I nak show off sikit pic of my new office, my lepaking corner, so called cosy corner for me n for my boss to berhembus.

View from the 10th Floor

Pic ni I took yesterday when the rain was super heavy, tak nampak anything pun.

Update Terkini :)

Salam Hari Wednesday, meh lah hang nak habaq sikit pasal itu tuuu......sat ni belum ada perkembangan lagi lah kan, semangat memang lah berkobar-kobar, cuma masih mencari dan mencari.

Walaupun dah suruh si Agent mencari, tapi macam slow, but never mind lah janji kiter tak yah nak kehulu-kehilir kan, just wait for the call or sms. Lagipun bukan nye senang jugak nak mencari ni, lagi-lagi yg boleh di percayai.

Currently ader 2 places yg we have yet to view, both house belongs to Singaporean, its fully furnished, cuma cuci kaki jer, but still we all kenek go n c the place dulu if sesuai, insyaallah end of this week we will go down n c the place.

Well, we all masih lagi bertanya sana-sini with frens yg dah berhijrah ker sana, especially hubby, dalam diam-diam dah few of his work frens yg dah ke sana without him knowing it, so now he is busy interrogating or to be exact interviewing his frens yg hari-hari ulang alik from home to work.

As for me, cuma perlukan semangat yg kuat dan kental untuk mengharungi suasana hiruk-pikuk di chkpoint setiap hari with the kids, other than that semangat I memang dah berkobar-kobar sangat nak ker sana dengan secepat mungkin.

The kids, the 2 girls masih macam hesitate but hope they will like it lah, Aqil happy jer, siap nak suruh bikin badminton court kat depan rumah, haha poyo my son tu.

I can understand why the girls macam hesitate, biaserlah anak dara kan, there will be lots of hiccups for them, especially kenek cut down on their merayap, which I suka, hehe...n also timing to sch, as for kakak, timing dia lain sikit dari Arin and Aqil. Insyaallah, mudah-mudahan akan di permudahkan untuk kami sekeluarga.

Itu sahaja for now, perkembangan baru akan di update kalau ada masa terluang di office, at home jangan harap lah, nowadays terus tak der mood nak use the PC when m at home, kecuali I-Phone senang kan, but its more for my FB.

Ok frens, take care ya n hv a great wk ahead.

Arghhhhhhhhhhhhh.............**yawning**

Ohhhh hw I missed my afternoon nap at home..............just like this pic, so truely heaven :):)

1.5 hrs left to go

Shhhhhh.....Rahsia Ku Rahsia Mu

Hi there all, Assalammualaikum semua, its almost wkends ya, now I can feel it cause dah back to work life, if not wkdays n wkends samer jer for a  full time hsewife.  No break at all, Mon to Sun still hsework, cook, blah n blah....

Okay back to my rahsia ni, so whoever read this, its going to be a secret between me n my blogger frens okay, its not going to be in my FB at all :):).............so shut the mouth, hehe.  I story pasal ni pun because I dah tak der story nak storykan.  Boleh lah jugak di jadikan story untuk my dearest frens.

M a Singaporean, n I luv my country Singapore very very much okayyy,  tanah tumpah lahir ku di sini, but currently me n hubby ada perancangan to berpindah angin, tak jauh pun, di seberang tambak jer.  Its going to be a slow n steady process, not the kelam kabut process.  We have to look at the pros and cons, which we have already, n still looking into it.  We are still looking for a place, which we have a criteria that need to suits us and the kids, all given to our agent for them to do the hard work.  We also need to look for a tenant to rent our 5 room unit while we r in JB.  No intention to sell at all, manalah tau, if it doest work for us, ade jugak harta n tempat untuk we all to go to. 

We hv checked with frens yg already did this, and we know that  its not going to be easy, dah ramai yg did this n they give up than balik semula, with many reasons especially the hassle of going in n out.  But ada jugak yg dah berjaya n they enjoyed their new life and environment, walaupun hassle tetap ada, but to them its going to be for a while, sampai lah mereka terbiasa.   In life ni mana ada yg senang kan, dah senang nak senang lagi, haizzzz sampai bila-bila pun tak kan ader perubahan.

To get a tenant for my 5 room its not a problem at all, demand for foreigners yg nak rent tempat tinggal berlambak kat Singapore ni, price pun alhamdulillah jugak lah for 5 room.  And for our tenant yg nak rent pun kite have criteria jugak, of course its only available to family and ladies jer, races ader jugak lah our choice, sebab nye ader yg pengotor kan so tak sanggup we all  nak sewakan to this type of people.

Yang will be a problem, to find a good place for us di seberang.  Thou we have agent to do it, but we still  need to check around with frens yg asal nyer memang Bumiputra, their input is very important cause they tahu lebih dari kite so we really need to recky and find a good place.  Its true tak semua yg kiter nak can be perfect but at least aman dan damai serta puas hati.

Actually we planned to do this like few yrs back, but what really macam trigger us beriya-iya betul nak do it now......even the kids, keep telling me, "best ah stay rumah camni, gerekkkk, relakssss"....its started again after we came back from Nad hse 2 weeks ago, anak angkat kesayangan I tu, kerana dia lah my hubby pun excited nak mencuba. Nad parents rented a place in JB, the hse was so big, double story, best giler I tengok, so itulah yg I pun beriya-iya sungguh...............Nad if u r reading this, pls just smileeeeeeeeeeee broadly okayyy.  So its really a yes yes now, the kids pun dah agree, huby pun agree, me lagi agree, n we will try to make it happen.

So, camner, ok tak uols rasa, n for my Malaysian blogger frens, tak der lah alasan lagi tak dapat nak singgah rumah I kalau berholiday ker JB, cause tak payah lagi pakai passport, hehe.

Insyaallah, kalau everything goes smoothly , few mths from now we will proceed with our plans.  Once everything is in place and settle, will let uols know of the outcome.

Okay my secret is revealed, sepatutnye tak bleh britau now, but who knows I might have a good feedback or comments abt this from uols kan, so pls lah feel free to give me tips, advise or watever lah yg patut k.

Assalammualaikum, SELAMAT BERHUJUNG MINGGU WITH YR LUV ONES :)

Trying...

Ape yg I nak try agaknyer kan...well well try to mengupdate this blog of mine ni yg dah lama kusam.  Now that I hv started to work again, hari-hari depan PC lagi, so I might hv that urge to log-in jugak lah kan. 

Oh yeah, talking abt my new work, I hv started with this new company like 2 weeks ago.  Memang pun I thought nak jadi full time hse wife, but well biaserlah ade jer masaalah yg timbul, so kesimpulan nyer kenek lah bekerja lagi.  

What I luv abt this work, its the timing, 11am to 4pm, 5 days work week, best kan, its a permanent part-time job with a Pharmaceutical Company.   Boss  dari India mari, a nice guy and its only 2 of us here in the office, an SME company.  I was here pun because I hv experienced in Medical Organization, so its easy jugak lah for me.

The company do lots of export, we import & export the medical products to countries yg susah-susah, like India, Bangladesh, Vietnam, China, Myanmar, etc & etc.  So far so good, boss always travel, when he travel his wife will  be here with me until m very familiar with everything.

I like te office, syokness ade pent house tau, hehe, nanti senang-senang I will take picture n tepek kat sini, now I cant, my USB cable hilang :(.....I can eat my lunch outside where my boss sediakan kind of cosy corner, its very windy out there, on the 10th floor jer.

Alamak time to pack ni, dah nak balik, almost 4pm.............will update lagi nanti kalau tak malas, tata :):)

Kenangan.......

Kenangan terindah ialah semasa moralle selalu mengupdate blog...............at least in a week, 3 to 4 times...but now :(

Kenangan terindah semasa ramai frens moralle membaca dan mengomen di blog ini, tetapi sekarang, ohhh sedihnye :(

Kenangan terindah jugak semasa moralle dalam dilemma dan kesedihan, di sini lah moralle luahkan perasaan dan mendapat  perhatian serta kata-kata yg sungguh berkesan dari semua sahabat, tetapi sekarang :(

Walau aperpun dan bagaimana pun, kenangan terindah bersama teman-teman di blog ini tetap bersemadi di ingatan ku dah akan slalu besama ku...........kerana ianye aderlah kenangan yg amat indah yg sentiasa akan ku simpan, itulah kenangan terindah ku :):):)

Assalammualaikum....

Salam all, ok lah memang I ni cakap tak serupa buat kan, cakap nak update blog more often but looks like kemalasan melanda juga tak habis-habis, yg pelik, nak log-in to blogspot pun like soooo the malazzz.

Today m sitting at one conner of my living room near the window with the lappy on the table, feeling-feeling macam syok pulak with the angin yg sepoi-sepoi bahasa, since the house is empty, in fact at this hr memang pun empty, the kids are at sch n huby working.  So decided to make cup of coffee n log-in to blogspot instead of FB.......hehehe

My life had changed a lot, since after the incident a yr ago.  I always tried to keep myself  as busy as possible to make sure that I live like other married woman.   And also to make sure that I look like a normal woman, bukan I ni tak normal horr, but m different now, I dont noe if people around me or who knew me noticed the changes in me, but I sure do changed a lot.  May b its not noticeable cause dari mata kasar, m still the same, m trying my very best to be the same, but only god knows how m feeling everyday in my life.  Hidup dalam ketakutan yg tiada batasan nye, feeling unreasonable every now n than, unsecured n macam-macam lagi, that is me now, how can I changed all these feelings, terasa baru jer berlaku n m still not feeling secured.

Everyday I told myself, watever had happened adelah cobaan for me, but no matter hw I tried to believe that, it doesnt seems to be true, cause to me whatever had happened adelah satu cobaan yg sangat tidak di sangkakan, and terlalu berat untuk dilupakan thou I knew it takes time to heal, but can it heal, which I doubt so.  I do believe in miracle that one day I will forget, but to wait for that day to come, its really torturing my mind every single day in every breath that I take. Its pathetic right, but believe me its hw I felt right now n at times I felt like running far away, but where to, dreamland lah agaknye.

Days, months passed by without anyone noticing it, if I ni popular actress I think I can win the dramatic queen award :):)

Well, like I said, life had changed, we are one family again, full of fun and laughter, thanks to Allah for all this.   Without failed I prayed to Allah to open my heart and mind, lead me to the correct path to keep this family together, insyaallah, aminnnnn.......

Wowwww this is panjang lebar kan, m sory, I hv to shout somewhere, cant do it at Fb, so di sini jugak lah tempat I mengadu dan merintih.  At last blog Moralle ni jadi sasaran.

I think I better stop here cause if not berjela n berpanjangan my rintihan hati ni, lets just c when will be my next entry, ariossssssssss to all dearies and luvlies who still visit my blog :):)