I dont know why I write all these, as I mentioned in my entry yesterday, there are things u can share with others and there are things that are to personal which u hv to keep it to your self. Whatever it is, I just felt like writing it and getting feedback.
Being a mother is not easy, especially when yr kids are growing up. Like me I have 2 daughters age 13 and 15, my son will be 4 yrs old this year. I can say that my daughters are filial but sometimes there are things that a mother like me felt that they have grown up so fast and you felt that they are not listening to you anymore. Every parents want the best for their childrens, to be perfect in all things, a perfectionist I can say. But can we as a parents achive that dream in our children ???????
As a working mother, I have to juggles my responsibilities cleverly between work, being a wife and the most important thing being a mother to my 3 kids. When things happened I felt so hopeless. I ask myself, di mana silapnye, what did I do wrong or semua ini adelah satu kesilapan yg tak di minta ???????????????? Anak adalah anugerah allah, and as a parents tanggungjawab kite pada anak-anak sangatlah berat. Kite harus memikul tanggungjawab ini walaupun kita sendiri terluka dan kecewa. Ianye tidak akan berakhir selagi kite masih hidup di bumi allah ini.
Mereka sentiasa berada di hati kita, walau bagaimana berat kesilapan yg di lakukan tetap kite harus dapat memaafkan mereka kerana di mata mereka hanye ade ibu dan ayah yg dapat menolong dan membimbing mereka selain allah. Tapi adakah cinta kasih ini dapat menolong mereka, dapatkah mereka membezakan baik dan buruk keadaan itu, "Ya allah, ku bermohon kepadamu, lindungi lah anak-anak ku dan pelihara lah mereka ya allah, sentiasa lah kau tunjukkan mereka ke jalan yg benar dan lurus, AMINNNNNNNNN"
Ini adelah keluhan hati seorang ibu yg terlalu banyak dugaan hidup, yg terpaksa di telan walaupun pahit rasanye, demi anak-anak yg di sayangi.
Being a mother is not easy, especially when yr kids are growing up. Like me I have 2 daughters age 13 and 15, my son will be 4 yrs old this year. I can say that my daughters are filial but sometimes there are things that a mother like me felt that they have grown up so fast and you felt that they are not listening to you anymore. Every parents want the best for their childrens, to be perfect in all things, a perfectionist I can say. But can we as a parents achive that dream in our children ???????
As a working mother, I have to juggles my responsibilities cleverly between work, being a wife and the most important thing being a mother to my 3 kids. When things happened I felt so hopeless. I ask myself, di mana silapnye, what did I do wrong or semua ini adelah satu kesilapan yg tak di minta ???????????????? Anak adalah anugerah allah, and as a parents tanggungjawab kite pada anak-anak sangatlah berat. Kite harus memikul tanggungjawab ini walaupun kita sendiri terluka dan kecewa. Ianye tidak akan berakhir selagi kite masih hidup di bumi allah ini.
Mereka sentiasa berada di hati kita, walau bagaimana berat kesilapan yg di lakukan tetap kite harus dapat memaafkan mereka kerana di mata mereka hanye ade ibu dan ayah yg dapat menolong dan membimbing mereka selain allah. Tapi adakah cinta kasih ini dapat menolong mereka, dapatkah mereka membezakan baik dan buruk keadaan itu, "Ya allah, ku bermohon kepadamu, lindungi lah anak-anak ku dan pelihara lah mereka ya allah, sentiasa lah kau tunjukkan mereka ke jalan yg benar dan lurus, AMINNNNNNNNN"
Ini adelah keluhan hati seorang ibu yg terlalu banyak dugaan hidup, yg terpaksa di telan walaupun pahit rasanye, demi anak-anak yg di sayangi.