Wednesday, July 15, 2009
...J MODEL...
In my life, until today, I hv much respect for all those women out there yg dah di tinggalkan suami, to be precise, JANDA either cerai hidup or di sebabkan kematian.
And when sumone who I cared so much came to me untuk mengadu nasib abt her marriage with her loving husband, husband yg selama ini tempat she bermanja dan mengadu, seorang yg she sanjung tinggi and someone yg she is so dependent on. After hearing all her problems, terus terang I katakan, my respect to all the J models out there hilang dengan tiba-tiba and it became disrespectful towards them. I noe this is not right, but what had happened to my fren betul-betul membuka mata I, and all this is because of 1 J model yg tak der maruah diri.
U hv no rights to say things that u r not sure of, pretending u know lots of things, ugama, kadaq and kadar, kebahgian rumahtangga, if u yrself dalam keadaan yg menyedihkan, di ceraikan suami setelah melahirkan. Why????????? why did yr husband left you n why now KAU nak ragut kebahgian kaum sejenis KAU........sedangkan KAU pernah merasa kepahitan bila diceraikan suami. Pernah kah KAU terfikir, wat will happen to her kids like what happened to anak KAU sekarang, di tinggalkan ayah di saat dia masih perlukan kasih sayang seorang ayah. HAVE U EVER THINK OF THAT..............................which I doubts so..............if KAU pernah berfikir or terfikir abt this, it will not happened and my friend will not be hurtful and depressed right now............sampai sanggup to end her life because of a woman CALLED JANDA.
Oh yes, of course my friend regretted what she had done, membodohkan diri dengan melakukan perkara yg dimurka Allah dan yg paling bodoh, memberikan kemenangan pada KAU without fighting for her rights. KAU sanggup ragut kebahgian orang lain semata-mata untuk memuaskan nafsu KAU sendiri, u stood so low and u think u can be happy with what u had achieved.
And now u r destroying a family which was once a happy family, melukakan hati seorang wanita yg sangat-sangat menyayangi suami dan jugak menghancurkan harapan dan kasih-sayang anak-anak mereka. Mungkin KAU dah merasa puas with what u had achieved now......but percayalan, Allah akan membalas semua kajahatan KAU dengan setimpal-timpalnyer.
Sorry ya frens, I got carried away pulak about this, its just that I really kesiankan my friend yg sedang berada dalam keadaan yg agak suram dan menderita now.............please doakan she will get back her happiness with her love ones, insyaalallah, AMINNNNNNN.......
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
...TIME ZONE...
Since hubby had already promised his son nak go Time Zone, yesterday at 4pm dalam hujan lebat we left to CP, the girls are there waiting already, baru habis watch movie High School Musical.
Very crowded with people, not only kids, orang-orang tua pun sungguh ramai play games at Time Zone ni.
Yang heran dan jugak menggeramkan, uol c for yrself k...........
excited minaci ni main motor...
This is Aqil favourite game, kalau go Time Zone, this will be the first one he play, but uols c lah, kenek tunggu si minaci ni habis main pulak, tak pegi collection ker si minachi ni, aduhhhh we waited nearly 20mins for her to finish........Aqil muka dah cramp.
Actually ade Chinese guy ni with his 2 sons yg dah tunggu nak main jugak, so kenek lah take turn kan, but this guy very nice, after the budak pompuan tu finish straight away he ask Aqil to play first, his son will play the other one, share adik beradik.
After that, the excitement continue, game after game, I snap a few photos of him playing, leave him with hubby than I chow to John Little to get my perfume. JL is having 20% discounts, I bought my compact, the girls and my perfume, cost me about S$40...okay lah, tak overspending.
All games yg he main semuanyer motor, favourite betul dak kecik ni naik Motor GP
From JL I called hubby nak tanyer dah habis or not, belum lagi, hmmm kenek lah naik balik to time zone.
Aqil was very happy yesterday, can really c the looks at his face, puas main games kat Time Zone, than hubby bought for him Ben 10 shoe kat Bata....aduh my boy suka sangat, very happy betul his face sampai he says, "ibu see Aqil face"..than he smile broadly....
From CP Time Zone, we all go n makan rojak at Woodlands Transit. Reached home 7.30.
Rojak Buah-buahan
Rojak tahu bakar
While watching TV my fren called nak kasi kad jemputan, so I went downstairs to meet her, dah tu I pelawa lah she and her hubby naik borak-borak sambil makan mee kuah.........jadinyer we all borak-borak sampai ke pukul 10.30pm.
They left, I pun kemas sikit-sikit, kepenatan, slept at 11pm.
Woke-up this morning at 9.30am, hubby need to work, the girls pun ade acara sendiri, need to cook cause Aqil has school today :)
Monday, February 25, 2008
TERSANGAT BZZZZZZZZZZ
I dont really want to talk about work today, hari-hari pun sama jugak, work never ends. So back to my story ngan my ex colleague ni, kite ni sama kepala tau, sebab tu kite leh klick. When I used to work with her in my previous company, hari-hari tak kering gusi, ade je story yg nak di storykan, lucu-lucu pulak, and she memang lah suka kalau I ni talk rubbish, menggelikan hati. Sometimes in work place, u hv to have that kind of kawan which will make your day. While chatting with her pun, leh jugak cakap yg rubbish-rubbish gitu ???????? . Maklumlah orang dah kahwin, wakakaka. Ade lah ups and downs with her tapi tak se-serious mana pun, tapi pun macam never pulak I quarrel ngan dia, slalunye yg gila-gila ade lah. We shared our stories, from family to in-laws to ape-ape aje, except yg private lah kan, nanti dah story part tu, susah lah pulak, "sorry Ana". K lah I pun dont want to story banyak-banyak about her, marah pulak makcik ni kang. Well, I cant wait to c u, dah berapa kali this get together kenek postpone, insyaallah, this Friday on k.
Saturdays Updates :
As mentioned in my last wk friday update, I have something planned for Saturday. We were invited (me n hubby only) to a posh restaurant, its called 'CAROUSEL' located at Royal Plaza at Scotts hotel. Its serves Asian & Mediterranean buffet. From 1 to 5, I give 4 rating lah, because I ni bukan nye suka makan Jap food, or raw-raw food ni, so I only enjoyed the desserts, and of course the seafood. The story is like this : we were invited by this couple, the wife and daughter actually my hubby trainee, btw my hubby is a driving instructor, so bila the daughter dah passed the mom pulak belajar driving. Bila dua-dua dah passed, tu yang as a gratitude they invite us for dinner, bukan we all je, there is also another instructor which is in the same group with my hubby, was also invited. But its couple je lah, so my 2 daughters I terpaksa post kan kat somewhere, but no choice I still hv to bring the bujang kecik. Well the dinner was quite good, this hotel belongs to Brunei, so kebanyakkan of their customers pun from Brunei. Susah nak compare, brunei ngan singaporean muslim kan sama je, unless kite dengar their conversation a bit je different. Back to the foods, they have everything served, and the desserts was marvellous (sorry tak de gambar) I didnt snap any photos of the foods, its very crowded and malu lah pulak nak snap-snap. Only a few photos taken, during the makan and also me posing at hotel lobby. This is the 1st time my hubby was invited to such occasions if trainee passed their driving, all the while only small token je. Normally he will bring back chocolate, sampai muak makan chocolate.
Sunday nothing much to update, was at home the whole day, hubby is working, left me n the kids at home. As usual, banyak kerja kat umah yg harus di perbuat. Actually I pun dont really like to go out on Sunday, i rather spend time at home. At least all those house works u can finish up on Sunday. If not it will keep piling up every day.
Nothing else to story mory, so I end my story here, will upload the photo yg I snap sikit-sikit kat hotel tu k.