Friday, October 17, 2008

...DEBATE OR BERDEBAT...

Wkends are here again.............but my wkends moods not as happy as alwayzzzzzzzz ):

All these arised because of my arguments with Kak Yana yesterday night about her Cambodia Trip. Sumtimes it hurts so bad when yr daughter who is only 15 yrs old dah pandai berdebat and even raised her voiced at you, thou I knew she didnt meant it. Terror betul budak-budak sekarang ni.

Actually, me n hubby had made a decision to let her go, but few days back there are news about a crisis between Cambodia and Thailand. So as usual lah, me as a mother macam worried pulak about these issues right now with these two countries.

Yesterday night I asked her if she knew abt the issues that is now currently happening at Cambodia and Thailand. Than she told me that they had a meeting at school to discuss about it but they were informed that the crisis will not affect the trip at all, blah blah blah and the school will follow-up closely on the outcome. I argued with her about few things caused to me it seems that she totally dont understand what is happening right now and to her macam no need to worry so much lah kan, tu yg I jadi melenting and felt that she dont want to listen to me at all.

I knew she really wanted to go for this trip, and I gave her my support as a mother but she just didnt understand how worried I am and she pulak thought going to Cambodia tu is like going to seberang tambak kat JB jer. Ya ampunnn.....I'm really having a headache with this girl.......

At last the arguments ended without any solutions, I just told her we will discuss about this again over the wkend wen her daddy is at home. We will sit and talk to her and will try to come out with a conclusions that will make all of us happy and satisfied, especially her.

I hv planned to go to Kota Tinggi this wkend, lucky my sister told me yesterday its cancelled, nasib baik jugak, I pun tak feeling nak jalan-jalan.

Thou I'm feeling a bit down but I felt happy 2 caused my dream of having lappy lappy will come true. Me n hubby are going down to Sim Lim Square tomorrow to look at one great offer of Mr HP :)

Fren of mine recommended his fren shop there and I've got a good deal to grab. If its really worth I will get the sexy mexy Mr HP.................

"HAPPY WKEND TO ALL"



17 comments:

Shopaholic Mama said...

Teens these days like that. Me & my son pun mcm tu jugak, so usually I get his father to talk better. He tak berani nak lawan balik!

And so happy for you dapat yr own HP. Later you promote which shop ok!

rillys said...

just slow talk balik wt ur daughtr ;)..hope she'll understand in this round

moralle said...

mama, i thought so, let the daddy talk to her, so she tak berani nak lawan balik, I will still support her thou on the trip, but she just susah nak listen to my side of view....

ok ok, will promote to you, confirm going 2moro, happy sakan ni :)


rillys, we will do that over the wkend, hoping she will understand yg I ni bukan tak kasi she go,but just worry jer....

Ceera said...

dia tak bermaksud kot kak.. biasa la muda2.. darah remaja gitu..

moralle said...

ceera,i know, tapi still hurting tau ):, ni nak kenek slow talk ngan daddy dia baru jalan...

ladyell said...

sis,try lg nnti.make her undrstnd 'axact' how worried u both are.realy2 try pujuk dia.bt if she still insist,rasanya tk prlu sis risau sngat coz ckgu2 n kwn2 dia ada samakn n surely dia org sntiasa update.cuma sis make sure je tmpt yg dia nk gi 2 far frm t hot spot.

moralle said...

ell, we will talk to her definitely, budak sekarang ni susah nak handle lah, tak macam budak dolu2....mudah-mudahan everything will go smoothly, thanks dearie :)

rasp said...

let things cool down dulu..for you and for her..good thing u ckp postpone the 'argument' till wiken.. kkdg bila tengah marah, mcm2 keluar..nak nak the kids kan sis.

my kids pun lebih kurang camtu gak..so as soon as i sense some 'fireworks' burning up, issue will be resolve later on bila 'cool' weather comes back :D

gud luck with the outcome!

try to have a great wiken..

p/s: bestnye dah nak dpt lappy..SH!!! i bila plak ;D

moralle said...

rasp, if ikut kan kemarahan i yg melimpah ruah, memang lah tak der ending tau, lucky I can control, dah sense the 'firework' meriam buluh pulak tu...

Me to hoping for good outcome, insyaallah :)

ooo cant wait for the lappy, after this my power supply bills will be a bomb, hahaha, mr SHHHHHH, 1 lappy for sis Rasp to :)

sHwEeT ByAtcH said...

besalah tu sis.. remaja skrg ni juz fikir fun.. nothing else.. going to a trip wuth frens sound too much fun to miss.. she did not intend to hurt u.. mybe juz becoz thw palnned lots if thng and she worries if u change ur mind.. that's all

Otak Belacan said...

Erk.

Agaknya dulu my mum pon rase gini kot. Hehehe.

Biaselah kiteorang mmg suka memberontak. And usually Bapak will do a better job. [Like me also! Hehe!]

Dgn mak susah sikit nak slow talk. Dedua nak menang. Mana tak.. :p

Sabar banyak-banyak eh. :D

Mulan said...

so?? what's the status now??? girls memang gitu...

Blushwax said...

HHhmmmmm....sounds so familiar. Reading this is like reading about me and my mom masa I remaja dulu. Hahaha. I can only imagine how bingit my mom must have felt talking to me.

About Yana, maybe you can talk to her teacher again about the situation in Cambodia. Or maybe u might wanna find out exactly where the school will be taking the pupils to. Cos Cambodia is quite big and not all areas might be affected. You can also check with someone from the Cambodian embassy here or sg embassy in cambodia on the situation at the area Yana is going to. I can understand your worry but i also understand how Yana feels. She must have been pretty excited abt the trip then when u cakap cannot, mcm hampa lah. But ultimately it's up to u and ur hubby to let her go or not.

that`s girl :)) said...

great mother :) sy selalu jugak kena macam ni bila terbit citer pasal trip. as usual, kalau jauh, mmg ibuayah x bg. mula2 memang memberontak, tp bila pikir2 balik, parents x bg coz dye risau. kalo risau, means dye diorang syg kita. and im happy wit tat! worried means cares..care means love!!! :D

moralle said...

dila, remaja skarang tak sama macam zaman akak yg takut ngan parents........but may b u right kan, she scared i changed my mind ...


Nadh, betul lah sis, memang susah nak cakap ngan anak pompuan....me leave it to her dad lah..


mulan, no status yet dearie, looks like tomorrow kot.......budak skarang ni suka memberontak ):

moralle said...

raf, we got letter from the school, just a brief one, tu yg i tak faham, this kind of place the school should be more details kan....I'm going to call the school on Monday thou + as u suggested may b check with the embassy myself on the situation there, she do look down sikit caused takut i tak kasi go agaknyer....


that's girl, how I wished sumtimes most kids will think the same way, but nowadays the other way round ):

PerantauSepi1306 said...

memang camtulah sifat ibu yang penyayang.. sentiasa risaukan perihal anak2..