Wednesday, September 3, 2008

...3/9/2008...

Yesterday night I wanted to do an autopublish for this entry, but when I dodoikan Aqil to sleep, dengan I sekali terdodoi, sadar-sadar its time to sahur already. Today I hv to update it bit by bit cause my boss early morning already in the office, so I curi-curi to update it.


Its our 19th Anniversary today, for me MORALLE and MR M.

Mr M is going to read this entry when he comes back from work tonight, I told him that I’m going to make a special dedication for our 19th Anniversary and he wants to read it okayyy, so I’m going to make it as perfect as possible :)

19 yrs with Mr M, the man that I will love forever and ever, insyaallah. Kami telah di kurniakan with 3 children, 2 pwetty and sweet girls and our handsome Aqil :) Anak-anak yg akan menjadi kebanggaan kami di masa hadapan, insyaallah.

A story 19 yrs ago, we met each other at a unique place and me working at a unique environment, tak yah elaborate this lah, very malu. Back than Mr M is still serving his National Service. It all started that night, he was there at this place with his frens. I was working till night so he offered to fetch me home that night. I accepted his offer immediately, padahal baru jer berkenalan. He has his charmed :) I guessed………..

Throughout the relationship I was very happy with him, he is a caring and loving person. Thou he is also a very temperamental person, but because of our strong love towards each other we managed to overcome all obstacles.

The boyfren girlfren relationship went on only for 6 mths and we decided to get engaged, bertunangan. The engagement period was very tough for both of us. We quarreled almost every week. We are still young and both of us panas baran. Almost tiny miny things will make us quarreled with each other. Inilah yg di kata kan dugaan semasa dalam pertunangan. Jealously, the main topics when we quarreled.

We end the engagement period within 2 yrs, we got married, 3/9/1989. Its been tough for me. Walaupun I’m the youngest in the family, but I hv to work very hard for my own wedding. There are lots of things going on in my family, to cut the story short, I don’t want to susahkan my siblings with my wedding arrangement, so I worked hard just to get married to Mr M. Alhamdulillah I managed to pull through and saved enough $$$$ for my wedding.

Our marriage life was also full of obstacles. When I’m really in need of someone to talk to, like my mum, but she is no longer around. My mum passed away 2 yrs after I got married in 1991 followed by my dad in 1994. We went through banyak onak dan duri, and that made our love grew stronger towards each other.

We had our new house after a yr of marriage, saat paling susah, maklumlah, we kan very young and at that time saving pun tak der lagi, so ni kira macam terjun botol nak kawin :) We shifted in an empty house, not fully renovated and without any furniture inside, except for our bed set, lagipun I yg nak pindah cepat, caused we hv issues with my sister in-law. We learned to berjimat cermat, work hard to build our castle together. Alhamdullillah, rumah pertama kami adelah syurga for us, and that is where we had Kak Yana and Arin………….

Masaalah kami tetap ade when I was pregnant with Yana. Allah betul-betul menguji kesabaran I as a wife and daughter in-law. Bayangkan di saat me mendambakan kasih sayang seorang ibu, but I merasa begitu tertekan sekali dengan my MIL. But I always remembered what my mum used to say before she passed away, “Mar, kalau dah jadi isteri orang, kite mesti slalu setia pada suami, sabar dengan ape jugak dugaan, jaga hati mentua, lakukan yg terbaik, kehidupan orang berumah tangga ni bukan senang, jangan ingat bila dah kahwin semua masaalah selesai” till today I will always remembered those words.

Live has to go on sehingga Arin and Aqil lahir. Being a father to 3 kids and hubby to me, I bersyukur kerana anak2 and myself di kurniakan dengan seorang ayah dan suami yg bertanggungjawab. Wife and kids comes first, biar dia berbogel sekalipun, tetap kami yg di dulukan. Sebaik mungkin he will make us happy and walaupun he has to struggle, he will make sure isteri dan anak2nyer mendapat yg terbaik dan sentiasa happy.

Kami tempuh segala dugaan, susah senang, suka duka sebagai sepasang suami isteri sehingga lah kehari ini di mana kami masih tetap bersama, alhamdulillah.

TO MY DEAREST HUBBY, HAPPY 19TH ANNIVERSARY, SEMUGA PERKAHWINAN KITE AKAN TETAP BERKEKALAN SEHINGGA KE AKHIR HAYAT, INSYAALLAH.

U AND THE KIDS R EVERYTHING TO ME AND I WILL CHERISHED EVERY MOMENTS WE SPEND TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.






28 comments:

rasp said...

Happy Anniversary to Mr & Mrs M!!!
Semoga berkekalan dan berbahgia hingga ke akhir hayat...

Touched tul by your n3.. memang tertunggu2 tau..suka tengok gambar lama2 tu..you both mmg very loving kapel tau!!!

Take care sis! Enjoy the day and may Allah senantiasa memberkati you & your famili!

moralle said...

rasp, thanks dearie for yr doas, i resah gelisah takut tak kesampaian hajat nak do this n3...boss pagi lagi dah muncul kat office

Oh gambar tu tahun 89, time hobit-hobitnyer, hehehe

Ceera said...

oh, tersentuh saya bca kak...

akak hadapi semua dugaan dengan tabah.. salut la.. =P

happy anniversary kak and mrM..

muahssssss to akak sorang, hiks..

moralle said...

ceera, thanks laling, inilah dia yg dinamakan cinta sejati, hehehe..... segala masaalah di hadapi bersama walaupun kadang2 kite tak sependapat, semua rumahtangga ade dugaannyer, tak banyak sikit tetap ade.......

Shopaholic Mama said...

Yippey 19th Anniversary for our dearest Sister Moralle & her hero Datuk M!

You really went thru alot & alhamdullilah, you overcame those!

My prayers that your family will be happy always hingga ke syurga & your relationship with yr in-laws will be better!

moralle said...

mama, should I shout to, Yippeyyyyy yeahhhhhhhhh.........

Oh Datuk yer, so I ni datin lah u bukan sister moralle, hehehe....

thanks sis for the doa's and me to hoping for the same, insyaallah. All the obstacles we went through thou its hard, but ALLAH is the greatest, one fine day all will be over :)

maliyanah said...

hey mummy!!!
happy aniversary :)
hope u n ayah will be a happy wife n husband....
:)
love ibu n ayah very much
MUACKS!!!!

moralle said...

Hi yana, thanks laling, amboi ibu suruh kemas rumah kakak blogging eh :)

thank u for yr doa to ibu n ayah, we love u and yr adik-adik very much toooo, muachhhhssss........

rillys said...

happy anniversary dear! we shared the same month..

Blushwax said...

Happy 19th anniversary sis! 19 years is really super long. Kudos for making it thru thick and thin together all these years. True love lasts til the end of our time here and u two are exemplary to the younger generation. Semoga u and ur family will be happy always!

moralle said...

rillys, thanks dear, happy anniversary to u 2 :)


raf, thanks dearie, memang really super long kan, but alhamdulillah berkat kesabaran and tolak ansur frm both of us :)

Hope that the younger generation will be more tabah with enough courage to face the reality of being marrried, not only on paper but till the end of time do us part.........

PerantauSepi1306 said...

Happy 19th anniversary Mr & Mrs M.. Semoga dirahmati dan diberkati Allah selalu dan berbahagia hendaknya hingga ke akhir hayat.

Wow, such a journey eh... suke tengok gambar kimono tu.. so sweet tau ;D

moralle said...

perantausepi, thanks dearie for the well wishes, insyaallah selagi ade jodoh :)

Oh itu kimono pesen lama kot,now lagi canggih kan, hehehe........

atty's said...

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO MR & MRS M..
ATTY DOAKAN SEMUGA HUBUNGAN INI BERKEKALAN HINGGA KE AKHIR HAYAT..DAN SUAMIISTERI INI DIMURAHKAN REZEKI DAN KESIHATAN YG SEHAT AMIN..

moralle said...

atty's, thanks dearie for the well wishes, AMINNNNN.....

pearlEJ said...

Happy Anniversary to akak n Mr. M... semoga perkahwinan akak n hubby kekal bahagia selalu bersama anak2 tersayang... :)

Ninie said...

Wahh romantik gitu...Happy Annivesary for both of u..Semoga berbahagia selama-lamanya..Annivesary ninie pun lagi 2 more days hihih...

moralle said...

EJ, thanks laling for the wishes, insyaallah semoga hingga ke akhir hayat :)


ninie, thanks dear, so I wish u advance dulu lah eh, happy anniversary to u to :)

iNi DunIakU said...

epi anniversary to u n ur hubby..

ur marriage is same as my age... :P

anywy i wish u all da besh n may ur epiness cherish u all da time...

moralle said...

ini duniaku, thanks dearie for the wishes, oh yer ker, u r soooo young :)

IdaShah said...

happy annivesary!
semoga kekal abadi
dah 19th tu...syabas akak n hubby tabah hadapi dugaan berumahtangga..

semoga di murah kan rezeki n bahagia bersama anak2

moralle said...

idahshah, thanks for the wishes dearie, AMINNNNN........

Mudah-mudahan di permudahkan perjalanan kami hingga ke akhir hayat, insyaallah.....

Nem0 o0h Nem0 said...

happy annivesary..
moga kebhgiaan itu milik akk dan family selamanyer..
muahhhxxx

tkcr!

moralle said...

nemo, thank uuuuu soooo much, muachhhhhhhhsssssss.....u take care 2 :)

Kasawari said...

wah.. tak terlambat ucap selamat ulangtahun perkahwinan ya..
semoga kekal bahagia hingga ke syurga.. Amin.

aduhai kenal2 mula2 macam tu eh.. ermm.. dah jodoh kan.. malam ker siang.. jodoh tak kemana kan.. he he

moralle said...

kasawari, thanks bro for the wishes:) baru2 kenal malu2 kucing jugak lah, abih tu orang dah pelawa kite kan, malu tolak tepi dulu ah, **ihikksss**

Hannan said...

happy anniversary!!!


p/s - sorry for the belated wish!

moralle said...

hannan, thanks for the wish, yr laling bday same date ngan akak nyer anniversary lah :)